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RULE GUIDANCE
Behavior, Guidance & Discipline Policies
GUIDANCE TOPIC
The program must have a written guidance and behavior policy. It must be simple and
understandable to the child, parent(s), caregivers and substitute caregivers. The written
guidance and discipline policy must be provided to all parents in paper or electronic form.
Although volunteers may be familiar with the guidance and discipline policy, volunteers cannot
provide guidance or discipline to a child. Only providers, staff and substitutes shall provide
guidance or discipline to child care children.
LICENSE TYPE AND RULE
Registered Family Child Care (RF)
OAR 414-205-0085 (1-7)
Certified Family Child Care (CF)
OAR 414-350-0240 (1-7)
Certified Child Care Center (CC)
OAR 414-305-0700
Certified School-age Center (SC)
OAR 414-310-0410(1-9)
WHY THESE RULES ARE IN PLACE
Guidance is most effective when it is consistent, reinforces desired behaviors and offers natural
and logical consequences for negative behaviors. Discipline is best received when it includes
positive guidance, redirection, and setting clear-cut limits that foster the child’s ability to develop
self-control. In order to respond effectively when children display challenging behavior, it is
beneficial for caregivers to understand a child’s typical social and emotional development. This is
an ongoing process to help children develop inner control so they can manage their own
behavior.
HOW THIS MAY LOOK IN YOUR PROGRAM
An early learning caregiver must work to maintain positive relationships with children by using
consistent guidance techniques and modeling prosocial behaviors and problem-solving
strategies.
Young children need caregivers to:
1. Establish a safe and trusted environment. Consistent routines are key.
2. Show children you care for them.
3. Validate children’s feelings, ideas, and words.
4. Be a positive role model. Remember that children watch & learn from everything you say
and do.
5. Set up the environment for success.
6. Offer acceptable choices.
7. Allow for natural consequences.
The written policy shall:
Guidance techniques may include:
Provide for positive
guidance, redirection, and the
setting of clear boundaries
The learning environment is set up to encourage
positive behavior and minimize frustration, with
consistent routines and materials that can be
accessed and put away independently;
Explaining consistent, clear rules and involving
children in defining simple, clear classroom
expectations;
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Involving children in solving problems;
Planning ahead to prevent problems and letting
children know what events will happen next;
Focusing on preventing behavior problems by
supporting children in learning appropriate social
skills and emotional responses.
Be designed to help the
child develop self
control, self
esteem, and respect for others
Using a calm and respectful tone of voice;
Respecting each child’s individual needs, desires, and
feelings;
Validating children's feelings and show tolerance for
mistakes;
Being responsive to children's requests and questions;
Encouraging children to share experiences, ideas,
and feelings;
Modeling and teaching social skills such as taking
turns, cooperation, waiting, self-control, respect for
the rights of others, treating others kindly, problem-
solving and conflict resolution.
Guidance and discipline
shall be fair, consistently
applied, timely, and
appropriate to the behavior
and age of the child.
Explaining to children the natural and logical
consequence related to the child's behavior in a
reasonable and developmentally appropriate
manner;
Implementing child guidance techniques consistently
and appropriately, based on each child’s individual
needs and the specific situation;
Offering acceptable choices;
Distracting or helping a child change their focus.
Positive statements or
redirection of behaviors shall
be used.
Using positive language to explain to children what
they can do and give descriptive feedback;
Redirecting the child to another activity is the primary
technique used when inappropriate behavior occurs.
Often this is all a child needs to self-correct behavior;
Intervene appropriately to stop
biased behavior displayed by
children or adults.
Redirecting an inappropriate conversation or behavior;
Being aware of situations that may involve bias,
responding appropriately, taking action to prevent
future occurrences; and
Refusing to ignore bias.
Policy Sample #1
The word discipline comes from the Latin word to teach. We will teach your child self-control,
respect for themselves and others, and responsibility for their actions. We do this by setting limits
that are fair, enforcing them firmly and lovingly, using redirection, and setting up the environment
to reduce conflict and frustration. Providing children with acceptable choices often helps them to
refocus on the situation in a positive way. When conflicts occur we help facilitate social problem-
solving giving young children the practice and skills they need to negotiate, verbalize their
feelings, and compromise as they learn to solve problems for themselves. Our day follows a
predictable pattern so children know what to expect, while we model teamwork and caring for
one another.
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Policy Sample #2
Positive child guidance techniques are used in order to assist children with learning self-control
and positive social skills. Conflict situations are handled with empathy and redirection. Strong
communication with parents is also a top priority.
A focus on prevention and positive guidance techniques will include:
Modeling appropriate behavior for the children
Listening to the children
Giving acceptable choices whenever possible
Encouraging the children and using descriptive praise
Noticing when the children are making safe and/or appropriate choices
Setting age-appropriate limits for the children
Modifying the classroom environment to attempt to prevent problems before they occur
Ignoring minor misbehaviors
Practicing social situations through role playing common issues/scenarios
Explaining things to the children at their level
Providing children with natural and logical consequences for their behavior
Planning for successful transitions
Explaining expectations ahead of time
Using short supervised periods of "time out," only when/if necessary
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION
There are no exemptions for the use of corporal punishment in child care. Likewise,
parents cannot authorize or grant permission for the use of any type of prohibited
punishment in a licensed child care program in Oregon.
Research links corporal punishment with negative effects such as future criminal behavior
and impairment of learning. Child care policies should explicitly prohibit any form of corporal
punishment.
The caregiver shall not
accept parental
permission to use any
form of prohibited or
corporal punishment.
Child care policies should explicitly prohibit any form of
corporal punishment or child maltreatment including (but not
limited to):
Hitting, slapping, shaking, striking with hand or
instrument, pinching, tying or binding, or inflicting any
other form of corporal punishment;
Mental or emotional punishment including, but not
limited to, name calling, ridicule, yelling, or threats;
Nonprescription chemical restraints used for discipline
or to control behavior;
Confining a child in an enclosed area, (e.g., a locked or
closed room, closet, box);
Forcing or withholding meals, snacks, rest, or necessary
toilet use; or
Belittling a child for or forcing a child to clean up after
toileting accidents.
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CCLD LICENSING SPECIALIST WILL REVIEW
The LS will review the program’s behavior and guidance policy and how/when the policy is
shared with parents, caregivers, staff and substitutes.
OPTIONAL RESOURCES
Caring for our Children: https://nrckids.org/CFOC
Conscious Discipline: https://consciousdiscipline.com/
Oregon Administrative Rules, Oregon Department of Early Learning and Care Chapter 414, Divisions
205 Registered Family Child Care Homes, 305 Certified Centers, 310 Certified School-age Centers
and
350 Certified Family Child Care Homes.
You are entitled to language assistance services and other accommodations at no cost. If you need help
in your language or other accommodations, please contact the Child Care Licensing Division at 503-
947-1400.
Original Issue Date: Nov 2021
Updated: Feb. 2024